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Crisis

Crisis is the end-point we reach after intense suffering or a gradual and long-term denial of self. Crisis is the spiritual tipping point, that place from which true spiritual growth quite often can occur.

A Life Sentence of Solitary Confinement

November 24, 2014

It is said the worst punishment that can be meted out to a prisoner is solitary confinement. Lock someone in ‘the hole’ long enough and he starts to go mad (note the metaphorical connection between ‘hole’ and burial/death). Seems rather clear to me now that this is pretty much the way each of us experiences life – through the prism of constant separation. And I think it drives everything we do – everything. Look at it for yourself. Are you not in essence ‘locked’…

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Regardless of What You Think

This video is well worth the 9 minutes it takes to watch. It is beautiful because in just 9 minutes it challenges all of those silly, stupid little judgments we make about ourselves, about others, about life. It reminds us that regardless of what…

April 9, 2013

Avoiding the Holes

Chatting not so long ago with a friend who is struggling to overcome the twin addictions of self-loathing and alcoholism, she announced that she had resigned herself to never being able to fully recover. To which I blurted, “But why would you wish to…

May 9, 2011

A Horse With No Name

A mystic has informed you that across a vast ocean of water eternal happiness awaits. You gaze at the water from the beach, painfully aware that every attempt you’ve made to find happiness on this side of the water has failed, so why not?…

April 14, 2011

The Imagined Power of Positive Thinking

As a miserable teen I developed quite a crush on the self-help industry. On my darker days I could be found poring over the works of the industry’s earliest progenitors – Napoleon Hill, Dale Carnegie, Mary Baker Eddy, Norman Vincent Peale. Later, I moved…

December 9, 2010

Catch You if You Can

Several years ago, at the absolute depths of my personal crisis, a horrendous and hideous thought suddenly occurred to me: What if there is no God? What if this entire existence is … meaningless? What if all of the suffering and anguish and turmoil…

July 22, 2010