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Relationships

Marriage or close interpersonal relationships are the advanced study begun in early family life. We ‘cleave’ unto our wife or husband or partner and through them a mirror into ourselves is offered and true growth can take place.

Leave the World Alone

June 19, 2018
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If my own life experience is any kind of indication, we live in a constant state of mental comparison to others. As in, how do I measure up in the estimation of my parents or children, or perhaps by the standards of my culture or race or socioeconomic grouping? Who am I, relative to them? It’s a brutal weight to bear, and across the hours of any given day, we’re rarely aware of its influence. Except in those times when…

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Happy Birthday to a Friend

It is said that life gives us what we need, not what we want. I like it that way, because, frankly, I don’t know nearly enough to be put in charge of so great a responsibility. I’d just make a mess of things. Letting…

March 7, 2017

God Died and Left Me Trapped in His World

God died the other day after a long battle with leukemia. With his death god took all the answers with him, the ones that might have helped me to understand why he bothered with the whole creation thing if he was just going to be…

July 31, 2015

People Who Need People

More often than not, if I’m suffering someone else is involved. That’s about as straight-forward as I can put it. I suffer because of other people. Put differently, I rarely if ever can recall a time where I was unhappy when I was, say,…

November 13, 2013

Save the Children: Examine Your Life

“All truth passes through three stages: First it is ridiculed. Second it is violently opposed. Third it is accepted as being self-evident.” – Arthur Schopenhauer One of the things you should expect if you genuinely begin to embrace nonduality is the growing habit of…

August 16, 2012

Lessons Learned

It’s been roughly three years since the launch of this blog and if I had to sum up everything I’ve learned over that stretch of time it would boil down to something like this: 1. Let go Suffering cannot be healed so long as…

July 13, 2012